The English language is such that for every rule, there is an exception or a way to break the rule and still be understood. Childhood rhymes or mnemonics are created to help memorize the rules: “i before e except when c…. “ (friend vs. receive),the letter “q” is always followed by “u” (queen, quilt), except for 78 words that came to English from other languages like Qatar and qi. Other confusions include words that are spelled the same, pronounced the same but have different meanings based on context. Examples – orange and orange, wave and wave, bat and bat. The name for this is a homograph.
A homograph that is particularly relatable to my work is the word trust. Trust can be used as verb or noun and the definitions are: 1. Trust – to have faith/confidence in truth, and 2. trust – a legal arrangement usually due to money. Interestingly you cannot have a legal trust, without having trust.
There are many layers in the formation of a trust:
Trust the process. You are not the first person to create a trust – and there are friends, family and google to help you through. There are step by step guidelines to be followed and they vary by state. In order for your trust to be a legal agreement, it needs to follow the checkboxes. These include taking stock of your assets (read my blog post on this step) and thinking about the people in your life that would be included, excluded and notified about your trust. To hold your hand and walk you through the process – an advisor can be the first formal step.
Trust the advisor. Find someone you like and that you feel like you can relate to. How do they organize the meeting? Where do you meet and what is their demeanor, and the personalities of the team? We all have preconceived expectations about what we want, and we are investing our energy, money and intimate details with the advisor. The advisors have varying expertise and may be able to assist with other to-do items as well as the trust.
Trust yourself. It is easy to second-guess or be unsure of your decisions and choices as you put together the documentation. This is a legal document and though the steps can be completed in a few days or weeks, the peace of mind when this is done right will last your lifetime. Trust yourself to complete the tasks and create a trust is yours. You can be guided by the process, standards and the advisor but ultimately this is your trust and can be notarized and funded on your timeline and comfort level.
Trust InsureYouKnow.org. It’s a safe place to store all the information in case you need to access it remotely – or from the comforts of your own home. The documents are password protected and utilize Amazon cloud encryption to secure and protect each password encrypted account. Your password is not known to the site. Only you, or someone you share the password with, can ever access your account.
Regaining trust – whether it is the confidence or the legal agreement kind – takes work and immense heartache, so getting things right the first time is advantageous to your mental, physical and financial health.
Do I really need to keep this? …yes….Now where should I keep this? In the information age it seems like there is more to keep track of – but when we come down to basics there are still basic documents that we all have and need, and need to be able to find. There is a lot of information online – bank statements, mortgage payments, bills, paystubs – but what happens when your circumstances change or the information system shuts down. Is there a way for you to get what you need – or your family members?
- Weeks. Paper receipts. The grocery store, gas, eating out. These receipts are not necessarily for long term record keeping – but they help when the credit card statement and balancing the checkbook routine comes. According to Experian research – the average U.S. consumer has an average balance of $6,354 on their credit cards. Without the paper receipts to verify transactions – the extra $100-$300 in excess charges or fraud may not be detected. After the monthly verification – the paper receipts can be discarded. Preferably in the shredder.
- Years. The ones that come to mind are the tax returns, mortgage payments and warranties. These are usually in a drawer or stuffed in a cupboard – “somewhere” and may not be accessible in an easy way. The ones that slip the mind and can be difficult to keep track of are the medical bills and plans. Even if you have changed employers, doctors or plans – there is no record of your medical history and payments other than you. Pre-existing conditions or the blood-test that didn’t get sent to the insurance company can come back years later when you interact with the same providers again. Suze Orman has an article on other documents that we should have in our record box.
- Forever – These are the one that we mention on most of our blogs and the things that are, hopefully, in our safe places. Give yourself time to get these together. Your birth certificate (and those of your household), Marriage License(s),(it is key to continue to keep the marriage license of previous marriages even if they have been officially annulled), the Adoption papers and Death certificates. Wills and Death certificates (of anyone that may be connected to your life and could have influence in your future holdings). To get a copy of most of these documents – you need to make a request at the county where the event occurred. This can be tricky when a person is born or dies in a place other than their usual place of residence. If you are unable to physically go to the county clerk office – there are third-party groups that, for a processing fee, will be able to help you get the documents you need.
As you hit the deadlines of storage – don’t forget to dispose of your paperwork carefully. Saving the planet by utilizing the recycling bin is all in good nature, but identity theft is real and has happened to 1 out of every 15 Americans. Consider investing in a home shredder that can be used on a daily basis. Alternatively there are often community shredding services multiple times a year when you can take boxes of paperwork to be safely shredded. For a fee, local office supply stores will also shred important documents.
As you reach to begin the record keeping process and shred those papers, remember InsureYouKnow.org product offerings may be your answer. It’s a safe place to digitally store all the information in case you need to access it remotely – or from the comforts of your own home. Taking stock of your records, memories and your current resources with an annual plan, may provide the peace of mind you’ve been looking for.
Donor fatigue has been taking the limelight in recent months. Many international nonprofits are unable to get the funding they need to cover the increasing needs. Flooding in Asia, Refugees in Central America, Ebola and HIV in East Africa, Endangered species in Europe. And closer to home – children needing school supplies and living without a balanced diet, seniors without funds to pay their bills, veterans without jobs. It all matters – it is all relevant, and it can all seem a bit too much – especially when many of us have concerns in our day-to-day lives. According to charitynavigator.org – 70% of donations come from individuals. How can you – an individual drill in and focus on what matters to you?
Look at your …
Passion– What in the world inspires you? Angers you? Has changed your life? This is the backbone of most donations in the United States. According to philanthropy.com, most donors give from the heart. Whether it’s due to a life changing event, love of animals or art, or a neighbor who you wish to support – it’s good to start somewhere…. Even if it’s just knowing what you are not willing to give to. Many households begin their journey of giving within their faith-based communities and continue from there, others start in childhood with sales from scouting. If you enjoy an organization’s work, or a cause – you are more likely to continue your support.
Budget – How would you like to donate? One time, monthly, semi-annually, on birthdays? How much can you give? There’s a nagging voice that often pops up when looking at this area – what’s in it for me. Some nonprofits provide levels or recognition for donations, others provide a material incentive – a logo-ed item, tickets to an event or opportunity to participate in an activity. Be mindful of the incentives you receive as they may affect the ability for you to claim on your tax returns.
Research – There are nearly 100,000 registered nonprofits in Texas, 1.5million in the United States and there is no clear number for the number around the world. Registered nonprofits are not the only ways to donate. There is overlap on causes, and there are scams. Gofundme among other groups are a recent phenomenon where individuals can reach out and ask for $$ without affiliation to a nonprofit. There are great stories out there, but also many people who are utilizing your heart and budget to fund their personal needs. Unfortunately there are people and people within nonprofits that are less than ethical. There are watch-dog organizations in the charitable space that publish findings and news.
Connections – As you research – there may be nonprofits that are new to you, people doing things that wow you. You do not have to support them with monetary means. Connecting with them via social media, joining their communication lists or even volunteering your time are ways to support the cause and may even be more valuable than cash. Some nonprofits also have wish lists or item donations that they appreciate more than the cash.
Family involvement – What is important to your partner, children, grandchildren, parents, siblings? Donations on behalf of family members can also provide value. There may be causes that you haven’t considered or ways to make the donation a team building effort. They may also have ideas for you to research.
Donations can also be documented for your tax return purposes. InsureYouKnow.org product offerings are a tool to support you. It’s a safe place to store all the information relating to your donations, easy to access remotely – or from the comforts of your own home, and has options to save receipts and documentation that you may need in the early part of the year. An annual plan is available to support your budget needs.
You’re a responsible person. You’re saving for retirement. You have a 529 plan set up to help pay for your daughter’s college education. Your car is paid off. You have an adequate amount of life insurance. You’re using InsureYouKnow to make sure your loved ones know how to access your important documents and financial information if needed. And you have six months of living expenses set aside in an emergency fund.
Then the unexpected happens: The alternator goes out in your car. It’s going to cost $400 to replace it.
Where do you find the money to pay for it?
If you answered, “My emergency fund,” you may want to take another look at your definition of “emergency.”
Your emergency fund is money you have socked away in case of a major life event, such as a job loss, divorce, or medical issue. This money would be used to cover your day-to-day expenses and bills if needed.
Washington Post columnist Michelle Singletary advocates the use of a separate fund—the “life happens” fund—for those pesky but somewhat predictable expenses that crop up.
“You’ll withdraw money from this fund to pay for unexpected or major expenses that don’t quite fit the dire straits definition,” Singletary wrote. “Car repairs would come out of this account. Start with trying to save $500, ideally increasing to a few thousand.”
Whether you call it the “life happens” fund, the “just in case” fund, or some other term, this fund is for those immediate expenses that aren’t quite catastrophic. These are expenses that result from situations that people often treat as emergencies but that in reality are expected, if irregular, like a broken appliance.
In an ideal world, you’d never touch your emergency fund. You wouldn’t lose your job. You wouldn’t get diagnosed with a major medical condition. You would have a regular, steady income with no major disruptive events in your life. For many people, this is indeed the case. That money sits in an easily accessible savings account where it earns minimal interest but supplies maximum peace of mind.
But even in an ideal world, you’re probably going to tap into your life happens fund fairly regularly. Even the most budget-obsessed person can’t predict every expense that may appear, such as the following:
- A storm blows through, knocking large tree branches onto the roof of your house that have to be sawed apart and hauled away.
- Your dog swallows a tennis ball and needs emergency surgery to remove it.
- Your toddler climbs onto the dishwasher door one too many times and it finally breaks.
- Your aunt dies and you need to fly out for the funeral.
In many of these situations, life is already stressful enough without you needing to scramble to come up with money for the resulting expenses. And you don’t want to tap into your emergency fund because that’s money you never want to touch. The life happens fund is the perfect compromise. Like an emergency fund, it’s kept in a savings account where it’s accessible on a moment’s notice. But unlike an emergency fund, taking money out of it won’t potentially result in your water getting shut off when you suddenly find yourself without an income.
Keep in mind that because you do need to access this fund somewhat regularly, it’s important to replace any money you take out as soon as possible. After all, life happens—and you never know when the next storm is going to pass through town.
If уоu аrе a rеgulаr uѕеr оf prescription mеdісаtіоnѕ, уоu knоw thаt thеѕе drugѕ саn bе соѕtlу tо рurсhаѕе. Cuttіng bасk оn drugѕ саn bе dаngеrоuѕ tо уоur hеаlth, but іf уоu аrе оn a fіxеd іnсоmе уоur сhоісеѕ саn seem lіmіtеd. Lеt’ѕ lооk аt ѕоmе соѕt еffесtіvе wауѕ fоr уоu tо ѕlаѕh уоur рrеѕсrірtіоn соѕtѕ.
- Uѕе Gеnеrісѕ. I саn’t еmрhаѕіzе еnоugh thе bеnеfіtѕ оf gеnеrіс drugѕ. Sаvіngѕ аrе drаѕtіс, bоth fоr іnѕurеd аnd nоn-іnѕurеd раtіеntѕ. If уоu’rе tаkіng аn еxреnѕіvе brаnd-оnlу mеdісаtіоn (bу thе wау, Lіріtоr gоеѕ оff-раtеnt іn Nоvеmbеr), аѕk уоur dосtоr оr рhаrmасіѕt (whо wіll ѕtіll nееd tо соntасt уоur dосtоr fоr аррrоvаl) fоr аn аltеrnаtіvе drug thаt hаѕ a gеnеrіс. Thе dеbаtе оvеr brand vѕ. gеnеrіс ԛuаlіtу wіll ѕаvе fоr аnоthеr dау. Mу vоtе 99.9% оf thе tіmе іѕ tо gо fоr thе generic. Juѕt аѕk уоur рhаrmасіѕt.
- Sрlіt thе ріll. If уоu hаvе bееn рrеѕсrіbеd 40 mg оf a drug аnd оnlу nееd 20 mg соnѕіdеr іnvеѕtіng іn a ріll ѕрlіttеr. Yоu саn rеduсе уоur соѕtѕ ѕіgnіfісаntlу еѕресіаllу іf thе рrісе dіffеrеnсе bеtwееn thе twо ѕtrеngthѕ іѕ mіnіmаl; сhесk wіth уоur рhаrmасіѕt tо mаkе ѕurе thаt thе drug wіll nоt lоѕе еffесtіvеnеѕѕ іf іt іѕ ѕрlіt.
- Shор іn Cаnаdа. Rеgulаtеd рhаrmасіеѕ bаѕеd іn Cаnаdа tоut thеіr lоwеr рrеѕсrірtіоn соѕtѕ tо Amеrісаn соnѕumеrѕ vіа thе іntеrnеt. Nоt аll drugѕ аrе lоwеr, еѕресіаllу whеn іnсludіng ѕhірріng аnd hаndlіng соѕt, hоwеvеr.
- Aѕk fоr a mеdісаtіоn rеvіеw. Idеаllу thіѕ ѕhоuld bе сооrdіnаtеd bеtwееn уоu, уоur рhаrmасу, аnd уоur dосtоr’ѕ оffісе(ѕ). Mаkе ѕurе еvеrуthіng уоu аrе tаkіng іѕ ѕtіll nесеѕѕаrу, аnd uр tо dаtе. Tоо оftеn, реорlе kеер tаkіng drugѕ thеу dоn’t nееd, оr whісh hаvе bееn сhаngеd, аnd thеу dоn’t еvеn rеаlіzе іt. I оftеn ѕuggеѕt уоu tаkе уоur сurrеnt ріll bоttlеѕ wіth уоu tо еасh dосtоr vіѕіt, аnd rеvіеw thеѕе wіth уоur dосtоr. Thіѕ аllоwѕ уоur dосtоr tо vеrіfу thаt whаt уоu’rе tаkіng іѕ whаt wаѕ іntеndеd, аnd аllоwѕ аn орроrtunіtу tо ѕее whаt drugѕ nееd rеfіll оrdеrѕ tо bе wrіttеn.
- Gо bіg. Purсhаѕіng a twо mоnth ѕuррlу саn bе muсh mоrе соѕt еffесtіvе thаn рurсhаѕіng a оnе mоnth ѕuррlу. Chесk tо ѕее іf уоur іnѕurаnсе соmраnу реrmіtѕ thіѕ рrасtісе.
- Aррlу fоr раtіеnt аѕѕіѕtаnсе рrоgrаmѕ. Thеrе аrе mаnу аvаіlаblе, uѕuаllу fоr thе mоѕt еxреnѕіvе drugѕ. Mоѕt аrе fіnаnсіаllу bаѕеd, but dоn’t nесеѕѕаrіlу еxсludе реорlе wіth іnѕurаnсе. Rіdісulоuѕlу рrісеd drugѕ lіkе Enbrеl fоr еxаmрlе, hаvе рrоgrаmѕ thаt саn hеlр mоѕt реорlе. Sоmе рrоgrаmѕ саn еvеn hеlр Mеdісаrе раrt D rесіріеntѕ.
- Gоvеrnmеnt аѕѕіѕtаnсе. Yоu mау bе еlіgіblе fоr ѕресіаl аѕѕіѕtаnсе thrоugh gоvеrnmеnt рrоgrаmѕ ѕuсh аѕ Mеdісаrе аnd Mеdісаіd.
- Cоuроnѕ. Oссаѕіоnаllу, соmраnіеѕ gіvе аwау frее ѕаmрlеѕ оf thеіr рrоduсtѕ оr wіll gіvе уоu mоnеу ѕаvіng соuроnѕ. Chесk wіth уоur dосtоr аbоut gеttіng frее ѕаmрlеѕ tоо.
Yоu саn ѕаvе mоnеу оn рrеѕсrірtіоn drugѕ wіth a lіttlе bіt оf рluсk аnd wіth рlеntу оf dеtеrmіnаtіоn. Shор wіѕеlу аnd уоu wіll bе сеrtаіn tо ѕаvе mоnеу іn thіѕ dау оf еvеr ѕріrаlіng hеаlth соѕt